How it all began

“When we first met, what drew me to him the most was his smile, infectious laugh, sense of humor, his brilliance, and the kindness of his heart.”

— Brittany

“I had never met someone so beautiful in body, mind, and heart. She made falling in love easy.”

— Brandon

After many magical nights of grabbing drinks at Kingfisher, catching shows at The Fruit, and eating delicious meals at the great selection of local restaurants in downtown Durham, Brittany and Brandon found themselves in love and planning a future together.

Brittany and Brandon found each other online during a tumultious time to say the least. Neither one knew that in the middle of a global pandemic, they would find the love of their life. After text conversations ranging from pleasantries to in depth musical analysis, it was time to meet up. Since the entire world was shut down, and they were both stuck indoors their first date was virtual. And after a three-hour video chat, they both knew they had found someone special.

“It’s hard to pinpoint when exactly I fell in love with Brittany because it was almost love at first sight, as cheesy as it sounds. From our first virtual date where her humor and wit had me wanting to talk until the sun came up, to our first night out where we laughed and shared our most vulnerable feelings, through our countless CookOut Runs, movie nights, and deep conversations, I found myself falling for her hard. But if I had to pick one moment, it would be when I quit my current job at the time for a new one. She cooked me an incredible meal as a way to celebrate my new job, and I was beyond moved. Not only was it delicious, but the time and care that was put in to not only the food, but the date itself was so meaningful. I saw how kind, caring, and thoughtful she was, and I knew that I loved this woman, because I felt loved by her too.”

-Brandon

“The moment I knew I loved Brandon, a.k.a “COVIDBae,” we were at the pool together. I had just completed a major exam in school that I HAD to pass in order to continue advancing in my degree program. As we were hanging out at the pool I was incredibly stressed out as I was still waiting to hear the results of my exam. I tried to play it off, but Brandon saw right though that — he has a way of knowing how I’m feeling, even when I don’t say it. He grabbed my hand, looked me in the eye, and asked me to be fully present in the moment. He then somehow managed to say all the right things and take my mind of the exam for the rest of the day. Next thing I knew, I was having the best pool day of my life. I felt like I didn’t have a care in the world! What I love most about Brandon is simply who he is, and I know we can build a beautiful life together because of how supportive and caring he is. No matter what I’m going through, he always keeps me calm and helps me move my mind away from worry and into the present moment.”

—Brittany

And the rest is history!

Brandon and Brittany have enjoyed every moment of their life together so far. They’ve spent hours playing Zelda, watched dozens of cheesey Christmas movies, shown each other hundreds of songs and artists, collected lots of sneakers and hats together, and shared countless laughs and smiles. They’ve traveled from New York City to Atlanta, Georgia, and everywhere in between. This love story is just beginning!

We hope you enjoy this selection of video messages we’ve sent to each other over the years, and videos of us having a great time. We think they do a great job of telling our love story. We hope you enjoy!